I am going through updating the kids' Quicken accounts and so can do a snapshot of where they are at.
Firstly, DL(16) is done with his allowance. I turned it off January 1, same as I did for his brother (when he turned 16.5). & the only reason it took that long was some miscommunication between MH and I. Probably should have just turned it off at 15 when they had their first jobs.
Our attitude about "allowance" is it was a tool for the kids to learn about money when they had no source of income, but we don't see the point at all in our high minimum wage state, once the kids are of working age. We'd maybe reevaluate with this whole pandemic situation (not sure if either of my kids will be working this summer). But... The other part of the allowance equation is that my kids don't spend money so we basically never increased their allowance from when we started (age 5). At the end of the day, is this $150 per year ($3 per week) going to make any difference in the grand scheme of things? Nope! Makes it easy to just move on.
DL(16) earned $34 interest (7% interest rate savings account)
+$156 Allowance $$
+$216 Gift Money (Birthday/Christmas)
+$1,024 Salary (very small summer job, something like 10 hours x 6 weeks)
- $90 Payroll Taxes
-$78 Clothing Purchases
Net Saved: $1,252
Current Job Situation: ?????? Weird re: Pandemic
Driving Situation: ?????? Weird re: Pandemic
DL(16) has always been the tortoise to MM(18)'s hare personality. So I am not surprised at all he didn't get his driver's license the second he turned 16. Mostly though he has a mental block about online school (is emotionally scarred from 2020) and he just can't deal with the online driving courses. & absolutely no one is teaching in person (which I think may become a permanent change). Will see... Last we discussed, he would do the online course next summer if it's still his only option. & we will have to lean on him pretty hard since his college plan is to go to community college in the Bay Area. He will need a car and we will never be comfortable with that unless he has more driving experience under his belt. That might be what motivates him, if we insist he stays at home the first year if he doesn't get some months of licensed driving experience first.
If he's not driving, he doesn't have any financial motivation to work. Once he does get his license, he will need to pay for the insurance on the kids' car. Insurance and tags and everything. Fuel and oil changes. But with the "free car" (not having to buy a car on top of that) he's well set up to cover those expenses for a while. He needs something like $1,000/year to drive and he does have $2,500+ saved up. I know this is a lot of our *shrugs* about just rolling with things (if we don't feel safe with him working this summer). Both my kids are learning great/early lessons about the flexibility and benefit of all those savings.
$ 500 Super High Yield Savings
+$26,000 Gifted College Money
I did end up just adding DL to my Target credit card because doing so had bumped up MM(18) to something like a 780 credit score. Which I didn't know until he turned 18 and we could pull his credit report. (The card I actually gave MM full control over and he used for all of his automobile expenses, did nothing for his credit score. That figures!)
In this case, the Target card is actully in my wallet. Will work on DL(16) getting some credit and learning how to manage a credit card when he has any expenses. Which probably won't happen until he gets his driver's license.